Pilgrims Inn is the biggy for us. Typically we adopt a family and help them out until they are out of the system. We never meet them, they never meet us, but we make sure that they have a steady supply of groceries, clothes for the kids, and other needed necessities (thats a freebie redun Ratt).
My parents church always has a HAbitat home in the works so I help out with those as time allows.
We also support United way and a Womens shelter with time.
And you are right, I do not worry so much about money. my wife and I are blessed but it is not a trust...