With a bipolar family member. Everyone understands that it's tough to be around a depressed person. But the manic side is just as difficult to be around. She is toxic in her workplaces, but is also very intelligent, and can read when she is about to be let go. She's good at what she does, but enjoys the chaos she creates. I have a feeling that her employers are so glad to see her go, that they'll give her a good recommendation just to be rid of her.