I've been seeing my gf for about 1 year now this coming Aug. I live appoximately 1 hour from where she lives (SF, Ca), and I get to see her at least once a week right after work. We hang out, watch movies, go out to dinner that one night and usually it falls on a Thursday. Then on the weekends I take off to kayak and I would leave her at her place. I warned her when we first started seeing each other that my schedule is "work, kayak, school, kayak, oh... did I forget to mention kayaking". She understood at the time, but lately she's wanting to see me more and for me to take a Sat or Sun or both just to see her. I try to balance it out, but living out in 3-4 hours from where there's a river, makes it a very long drive and so I prefer to spend the weekend there.
I really like my gf, but don't want to give up the sport a whole lot. Is this an early sign of throwing in the towel? I try to get her out on the water, but she doesn't seem to have a knack for it. I also tried putting her in a rubber duckie and she liked it, but she was a bit of a sheltered child and not very athletic.
I'm kind of confused as to how to handle this because this has never happened to me before. Anyone with similar experience? I know of friends that dump their gf as soon as boating season begins and find themselves new ones when rivers aren't flowing.
you need to hook up with jimt and hardboater......ya'll can cry on each other's shoulders <NT> dneesh New
why in the hell do ya'll put up with that manipulative shit?....I just can't figure it out, UNLESS dneesh New
I'm Sorry...I'll tell you a poem. Of all the things that came to pass...our love has grown... AaronK New